kategori: gadis melayu bertudung, lingkungan umur univ. student or fresh grad.
stereotaip: kampung. takreti converse in english. senyaaap, suara lembut takleh dengar konon sopan and taknak participate in activities involving lelaki, takpandai bagi idea and takut nak speak in public.
reality: aku bukan macam tu.
harsh reality: kewujudan segelintir gadis yang memang begitu dalam event tertentu akan menyebabkan aku juga dianggap begitu. (proven by experience and by berterus terang dan bertanya pendapat semua orang yang terlibat.)
solution: i proved them wrong. i worked hard to prove them wrong until if anyone would like to pin down even one of the sifat above on me, they will think, eh, she's the opposite of all that.
harsher reality: sometimes, why would people care? they will still stereotype you even after you tried so hard.
what happened next: segelintir gadis-yang-memang-begitu itu akhirnya followed my lead, and akhirnya diorang pun jadi boleh-tahan-lah.
conclusion: sell yourself well. show that you are good. jangan bagi peluang untuk orang menilai dan me-label anda sesuka hati.
okbye.
stereotaip: kampung. takreti converse in english. senyaaap, suara lembut takleh dengar konon sopan and taknak participate in activities involving lelaki, takpandai bagi idea and takut nak speak in public.
reality: aku bukan macam tu.
harsh reality: kewujudan segelintir gadis yang memang begitu dalam event tertentu akan menyebabkan aku juga dianggap begitu. (proven by experience and by berterus terang dan bertanya pendapat semua orang yang terlibat.)
solution: i proved them wrong. i worked hard to prove them wrong until if anyone would like to pin down even one of the sifat above on me, they will think, eh, she's the opposite of all that.
harsher reality: sometimes, why would people care? they will still stereotype you even after you tried so hard.
what happened next: segelintir gadis-yang-memang-begitu itu akhirnya followed my lead, and akhirnya diorang pun jadi boleh-tahan-lah.
conclusion: sell yourself well. show that you are good. jangan bagi peluang untuk orang menilai dan me-label anda sesuka hati.
okbye.
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